Understanding Adoption Terminology: The Power of Language

Language has a powerful influence on how adopted children and their families feel about their experiences. Using positive adoption terminology, like “birth family,” “permanency,” and “placed for adoption,” respects the child’s unique story and helps create an inclusive environment. Instead of phrases that may imply judgment or favoritism, such as “real parent” or “given up for adoption,” positive adoption language affirms each part of a child’s journey.
Respectful language is essential in schools, healthcare, and social services, where understanding and inclusivity can significantly impact a child’s self-esteem and sense of belonging. By promoting inclusive terminology, educators and professionals create a space where children feel acknowledged and understood. National Adoption Month is a great opportunity to educate ourselves and others on adoption language that builds respect and inclusivity for all families.