Connected Together™ is our monthly e-newsletter designed to bring families, educators, mental health professionals, and all those who support adoptive, foster, and kinship children together. Each edition features helpful articles, real stories, and the latest research to keep you informed, inspired, and connected.

March 2026


March invites us to honor the professionals whose work often happens quietly, yet powerfully — especially school social workers. In National School Social Work Month, we recognize that children carry their pasts with them into classrooms, friendships, and learning spaces. When schools and families share understanding — not just of behavior, but of a child’s story — trust can grow, regulation can strengthen, and connection can take root.

For adoptive, foster, and kinship children, permanency is not a finish line — it’s ongoing. Healing is reinforced through everyday partnership: counseling offices, IEP meetings, team conversations, and the steady presence of trusted adults. This month’s Connected Together™ highlights what becomes possible when home and school are truly connected — through scholarship support for school social work leaders, forward movement in policy, and a featured reflection on supporting teenagers with disrupted attachment histories.

Healing is a team effort.
Connection is a group project.
And together, we help children grow, trust, and thrive.

  • From the Founder…
  • Shaping Practice that Heals
  • Scholarship Update: Adoption & Foster Friendly Schools™ Social Worker Champion Scholarships
  • Shaping Policy that Heals
  • Supporting Teenagers with Disrupted Attachment Histories
  • Shaping Parenting that Heals: Connection Corner
  • Connected We Thrive™ Professional Development
  • Celebrating One Year of Connection Kits™
  • School-Based Mental Health Training
  • Sequoia Families
  • Resources

And more ways to learn, connect, and support children and families through iCARE.

February 2026


February invites us to reflect on the heart — not just as a symbol of love, but as the place where early experiences shape safety, trust, and connection. For children impacted by adoption, foster care, and kinship care, those early experiences can leave lasting impressions that follow them into families, classrooms, and communities.

This month, we’re exploring what happens when a child’s heart is wounded early — and how healing becomes possible when caregivers, educators, and systems respond with understanding instead of pressure. From family stories to policy change, from professional learning to school-wide commitments, the message we continue to hear is clear:

Understanding changes everything.
Connection leads the way.
And when we respond differently, children can truly thrive.

The Pervasive Damage of Heart Shocks

Veronica’s Story + Her Mom’s Story

Shaping Policy that Heals

The Adoption & Foster Friendly Schools Champion Network

Shaping Parenting that Heals

Shaping Support that Heals

Adoption Competency State of Practice

Connected We Thrive™ Professional Development

School-Based Mental Health Training

Sequoia Families

And more ways to learn, connect, and support children and families through iCARE.

December 2025 / January 2026

As the holidays approach, we’re nudged to look ahead — to what’s possible for our families, our work, and the children we serve. It’s a season built on potential.

This year, I’ve been especially moved by almost 500 parents, caregivers, teachers, and social workers who joined our trainings. Your openness to learning and reimagining support for adopted, foster, and kinship kids was unmistakable. In every room, I heard the same heartbeat:

We’re ready for something different. A reset. A better way forward.

Connected by Purpose

Shaping Policy that Heals

Shaping Parenting That Heals

Youth Voices

In Case You Missed it

Sequoia Families Support Groups—In Person and Virtual

Connected We Thrive™ Professional Development Series

And more updates from iCARE in your community

November 2025

November is National Adoption Month—a time to honor the love, resilience, and creativity of adoptive, foster, and kinship families. At iCARE, we celebrate connection every day, knowing that family is built not by biology, but through trust, care, and shared joy.

This month, we’re honored to share stories that remind us what connection looks like in real life:

Stories of Connection

Shaping Policy that Heals

Training at the Heart of Excellence in Child Welfare

Fostering Change Podcast

Connected by Purpose

Sequoia Families Support Groups—In Person and Virtual

Connected We Thrive™ Professional Development Series

And more updates from iCARE in your community

October 2025

As we step into October, we’re reminded that fall brings both reflection and fresh opportunities to support adoptive, foster, and kinship families. This month we join in recognizing National Down Syndrome Awareness Month, we’re excited to premiere our new spotlight video, and we’re on the move this fall presenting at numerous conferences and events across the Midwest and beyond. Alongside these updates, we continue to share hope-focused resources and practical tools for schools and families.

Love Without Limits: Celebrating Families with Children with Down Syndrome

Seeing the Whole Picture and Shaping Policy that Heals

Sequoia Families Support Groups—In Person and Virtual

Connected We Thrive™ Professional Development Series

And more updates from iCARE in your community

September 2025

As we step into September and a new school year, I’m reminded of both the opportunities and challenges that face adoptive, foster, and kinship families. This is a month where awareness and advocacy meet real life.

FASD Awareness Month with a special contribution by Angela Geddes

Family Focused FAQs in Shaping Policy that Heals

Connected, We Thrive™ Professional Development Series 

iCARE is on the move…and so much more

August 2025

Back-to-school brings more than supplies—it brings opportunities for connection and healing. In this issue, we highlight new Illinois legislation that prioritizes human connection in school mental health, explore what it means to build healing-centered schools, and share upcoming trainings and tools to help children feel safe, seen, and supported—especially those in adoptive, foster, and kinship families.

SUMMER EDITION June and July 2025

It’s Summer. School may be out, but we never stop learning!

Listening First: What Adoptees are Teaching Us About School Support

‘What Can I Do?” is the question that kept rising from the crowd. Listen and learn in this edition.

May 2025

May is National Foster Care AND Mental Health Awareness Month.

We hear from a powerful voice, Jocelyn, as she shares her story, a story about an adoptive dad’s wake-up call and learn about a movement that is growing!

April 2025

Let’s Talk About Stress: April is Stress Awareness Month.

Stress affects everyone—find tips for coping and supporting those who need it most

March 2025

March is National Social Worker Month.

The Healing Path: Cultivating Strong Connections

February 2025

Love in Action!

💙 Big News for Kids in Foster, Adoptive & Kinship Care.

We’re embracing the power of LOVE with CONNECTION and COLLABORATION!

January 2025

A Fresh Start: Mental Health Matters for Foster and Adoptive Kids💙

This New Year, let’s empower children with the support they need to thrive.

December 2024

Together We Thrive December Newsletter 💌 2024

November 2024

Welcome to iCARE’s First Monthly Newsletter 💌!

Join us on this journey—let’s make a positive impact, one child and one family at a time.

Fostered Not Forgotten. Adopted Not Alone.

HelpEveryChildBeSeen

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— NEXT ONLINE COURSE STARTS ON Sep 24TH —

TBRI® Fall Virtual Online Training

ANY parents of kids and caregivers who’ve had trauma — take a FREE, VIRTUAL TBRI® training offered for the first time in the evenings (Tuesday from 5:30-7:00, Sept. 24th – Dec. 17th), with trained therapists from The Baby Fold in Illinois. A zoom link will be sent to registered attendees closer to class time along with manuals for each section.